y'all are both ignoring my point, which is that if you believe it's harmful you can say that without bringing others down or getting aggressive. just like cuke could have made their point w/out getting aggressive. getting mean doesn't serve anyone.
i'm not arguing that their communication isn't great. but fighting fire w/ fire isn't going to work. I mean, I guess it depends on what your goal is with getting aggressive back, which i can't speak to.
his rebuttal to me saying that 173 isnt most competitive for t14 full ride was "do u realize most people dont score 170"