Hypothetically would you break up with a guy if he left piles of his laundry on the floor, left dirty dishes in the sink instead of putting them in the dishwasher, and constantly deflected onto your short comings when you tried to express what you needed from him?
because hypothetically he treats the house like it's his own bachelor pad, leaves garbage/cups/plates everywhere, and if the GF doesn't do it, it won't get done
yeah I mean if you haven't talked ab it with him do that and see if he changes but if he isn't gonna change its just not worth it, you'll be drained from cleaning up after him or living in a mess
Thickthighssavelives
9:24
Leave. My ex did that and I didn't leave and it was awful
Thickthighssavelives
9:24
bc now I feel so much shame knowing I stayed w such a slob
@ValleyH: oh I have so much sympathy for this hypothetical friend, please know that I care about her and recognize that this is a complicated and shitty situation :(